Joe is an artist and invited me out to his house to see his artwork and maybe help him with a project or two, all of which which seemed like an interesting enough thing to do. I've been given the gift of time lately and it's allowed me to explore all kinds of new things, including the development of among other things my own art and business, photography. Joe offered to make lunch, asking me if brown rice and mushrooms would be ok with me since he was eating healthy these days. So, I said, terrific, sounds great.
Compared to the 35 years we had been out of touch, the nearly one hour drive out to his house seemed like a small distance to travel. Frankly, my last recollection of hanging out with Joe in middle school wasn't a good one, through no fault of his own however. Seems it was mid-winter and we were out in his front yard, making snowballs and throwing them at passing cars on his street, common enough past time for rambunctious adolescent young boys in the late 1960s. The problem though, was that there must have been some broken glass in the snow: my hands were frozen (yes, no gloves, hey I was what, 12?) and my snowballs were turning bright red. I looked down at my hands and one was very badly deeply cut, requiring a trip to the hospital and stitches, the works…yes, bad memory.
35 years later, I arrive at Joe's doorstep for lunch, camera gear in hand, ready to check out his art, have some lunch, hang out, and move on. What I discovered tho was a far deeper trip down memory lane than I expected. Joe's hospitality was gracious, lunch was terrific, his blind dog Rocky was curious enough about me, and his art was terrific. More than that, a lot can happen in 35 years.
Seems somewhere along the way Joe had a work place accident which he really doesn't want to talk about, mostly it seems he just doesn't want to burden a guest with that stuff and most likely he just wants to move past it all. He's retired, and has dedicated himself to his art.